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Name:  laurie    Email:   
Child:  MM
Comment:
64    Sunday, 31 October 2004 - 04:20:30pm
Welcome Mike -- is your son in early intervention or some similar program? they are your best bet for help w/ feeding issues. A speech therapist or oral motor therapist may be in order.
also, if Trueman is getting occupational therapy, they may be able to give you some help.
and check w/ your physical therapist to see if your son is positioned properly in his chair, etc...with ym daughter we had to prop her w/ rice bags, built up the foot rest in her high chair w/ a wood plank so her feet could sit on it, etc....my PT and ST worked together to help me.
if they say your son is not eligible for speech yet....FIGHT FOR IT! Your son may have sensory or other issues that are interfering w/ his feeding -
good luck, and hope this helps some. laurie
 
Name:  pat gibson    Email:   
Child:  Cory
Comment:
63    Sunday, 31 October 2004 - 03:57:09pm
Hi Susan
Its nice to see someone with another teenager.
Seeems like most of the posts are from parents just
starting out with little ones. We have been through
that and now its the teenage years. They sure grow
up fast don't they?
pat
 
Name:  mike    Email:   
Child:  trueman
Comment:
62    Sunday, 31 October 2004 - 03:45:11am
my down syndrome son has just turned ten months old and never seems to want to eat. It takes my wife over one and a half hours just to get a small amount of food into him. She feels terribly bad because he just doesn't seem interested in eating. She cries everyday wondering what to do. In talking with doctors and others, they just pass it off saying that Trueman will eat if he gets hungry enough. Is there any feeding specialist or someone else out there who can help us. Thanks. mike
 
Name:  Susan  
Child:  Emily
Comment:
61    Sunday, 31 October 2004 - 01:47:56am
Pat~
WELCOME to Uno Mas!!! I have a 13 year old daughter and I'm always thrilled to see a parent of another teen!!! Cory sounds like an awesome kid.
Susan
 
Name:  pat gibson    Email:   
Child:  Cory
Comment:
60    Friday, 29 October 2004 - 03:37:43pm
Trying to decide where to place our special children
for school and be very frustrating. Cory attended
an MH program in grade school which worked out very
well. When it was time to move on to middle school,
everything went wrong. They didn't have a MH program
and refused to do so. I placed Cory in a special
school for handicapped children for two years becuase
of this. Now our high school started an MH program
this year with the same teachers. He is doing
wonderfully. The other children accept him totally.
My other son (16) attends there so all of his friends
watch out for Cory and its great.
This morning I received an E-Mail from Corys teacher
and the Girls Basketball Coach wants Cory to be
a team "manager" for home games. The acceptance is
great.
 
Name:  Judy Best    Email:   
Child:  Christopher 24 years old
Comment:
59    Friday, 29 October 2004 - 02:58:28am
Hi Kathy I can share my experince. My Son Christopher went to a school where his class was known as the Class for Kids with Learning Disability. But it was pretty cool because the kids in the regular class rooms were pretty good with the kids in the Learning Disability class roo, they would even go and help out in the room when they could. Sure there will alway be those few that will tease him. I taught my son that if they ever called him names to just ignor them and smile. Well I got to go. Judy Best
 
Name:  kathy montes    Email:   
Child:  Darius(5)
Comment:
58    Thursday, 28 October 2004 - 11:57:38pm
hoping for some input on experiences with schooling.
my son is transitioning into kindergarten. He is being placed in a class labeled "severely handicapped". Can anyone out there share with me their experiences.
 
Name:  Judy best    Email:   
Child:  Christopher 24 years old
Comment:
57    Thursday, 28 October 2004 - 11:26:10pm
Hi Betty Thank for the information. I am glad to hear your grandson Christopher is doing good. My son Christopher speech is pretty good as long as he take his time. sometimes he get excited and starts talking too fast. He started saying words at 3years old. The school wanted to teach him sign language first. I did not agree with that. I felt they should work with him on his speech first. nice hearing from you Judy Best
 
Name:  Adrienne    Email:   
Child:  Russell
Comment:
56    Thursday, 28 October 2004 - 10:53:03pm
It's the end of Daylight Savings everyone... don't forget to turn your clocks back an hour on Sat night before you go to bed :)

A.
 
Name:  steff  
Child:  olivia(6)
Comment:
55    Thursday, 28 October 2004 - 08:48:11pm
WEll I can't believe my eyes!!!!! RO!!!!!! hee hee.. I saw your post and gotta ask have you ever seen an episode of Spongebob where Sandy the squirrel misses Texas??? Oh man EVERY time I see it I think of you.... hee hee. Glad to see ya here...

Just popped in to ask if anyone saw the Sports center piece on Albert Pujolis?(sp) Ya know of the famous World series champion rRed Sox???/ WELL lemme tell you this is a great guy... hee hee... They did a peice and my husband waited a half an hour with this show on pause so I could see it. He has a gf or a wife not sure of the details who has a 3 yr old with ds. WELL there are alotta kids from their ds groups and such who know him and come to the games and cheer him on. This one girl just gushed on how Albery P is the BEST player her BEST fried and how much she loves him. Just adorable. WELL he does a lotta charity work for ds and last time he bid on a trip to FLA knowing full well his family couldn't go and they showed him presenting it to this little girl and her family at the charity benefit. The whole place was in tears as well as Jeff and I. AWWW a real heart warmer. I love heariung cool stories like that. Anyhow I am getting ready for halloween. Of COURSE my boy wants to be MICHAEL MYERS!!!!(UGGG) and my girl she can't decide on a ghost or a witch. We'll see when last minute steff takes em shopping sat for their costumes. I saw one funny one it was one of those blow up ones it was a sumo wrestler ballerina. At target thought it was pretty funny. Well gotta git bye
 
Name:  Connie    Email:   
Child:  Collin 4yrs
Comment:
54    Thursday, 28 October 2004 - 06:16:10pm
Hello All,

Just wanted to say hi to all the newbies and old timers that I have missed...Holly and RO!!!!

Pat -- I just took Collin to the doctor yesterday and while I was sitting waiting for his turn to have labs drawn in came a couple. They young man proudly anounced that He and his wife were here to be seen and went and sat down. I would say they were in there 30's but, she had DS and he did not. I did not get a chance to talk to them unfortunately. I would have loved to talk to them and found out more. It made my heart feel good to see them.

Holly -- I would love to hear more about this vision therapy MIA is in because Gray (7yrs old) is having vision problems. He is 20/30 and 20/70 with his glasses on and vision in his bad eye seems to be getting worse even with it being treated right now.
Sorry to hear about the lyme disease...man I know what you mean about being busy. With my 4 (sometimes 5 if you count DH) if its not one thing its another.

Ro--Missed you girl. You are right we do need to get a big chat going like old times. It would be nice to catch up with old friends and get to know newones even better.

Prayers for all,
Connie
 
Name:  Holly Giglio    Email:   
Child:  Jake, now 5
Comment:
53    Thursday, 28 October 2004 - 04:38:49pm
Okay, don't anyone pass out that I am back! It has been way too long! For those who do not know me, my name is Holly, husband Joe, son Jake who is now 5 years old, daughter Mia who is 7. We moved this past Dec from MI to PA. Tough transition but I think we have finally settled in. Not a lot of friends yet but I am in the process of starting my gymnastic program for kids with special needs. I start in Jan and I am so excited! My hope is to have a gym team for Special Olympics this next year.
Jake is now in a special ed school m-t in the morning and then we go 2 days a week to a church preschool. We are working on getting him an aid but right now, I am his aid. He is also getting speech servies at Loyola Speech clinic in Maryland. What a great place. Jake is actually talking! all be it just a little. He is still signing but he can say at sign at least 20 words and is actually putting those words to appropriate use. Also, he now pees in the potty and 2 days ago, he did his first poop in the potty! It was so great! Talk about a happy mommy!
Our daughter Mia and our dog Ike both have been diagnosed and now being treated for Lyme disease. It is crazy around here to say the least! Mia is also now in a Vision Therapy program. I kept saying that I thought she was having some kind of problem and they finally found that she has some directional issues. She was really struggling in school but now seems to be doing much better.
Can you say that all I do is run around? It is crazy!
Anyway, I have thought of you all so many times but I just have not had much time to check in. I hope everyone is doing well! Robin, I hope Chase and you and Dave are doing great! I have thought of him a million times this halloween. Let's see, still a fireman? ha! I will have to try to catch up with everyone's lives.
Holly
 
Name:  Pat Gibson    Email:   
Child:  Cory
Comment:
52    Thursday, 28 October 2004 - 04:26:54pm
I was so pleased to get answers regarding my son
Corys future. I never thought marriage was in the
cards for him. I know I have seen other couples with
handicaps married, but I just never thought it was in
his future.
Cory is very high-functioning and has wonderful speech
and all. No health problems, thank God. He does
like to watch alot of pre-school cartoons all the time. Can't seem to get him away from the inmature
things. Toys, tapes, etc. I'm working on it though.
 
Name:  TriciaF    Email:   
Child:  Patrick
Comment:
51    Thursday, 28 October 2004 - 03:23:50am
Pat....I just wanted to chime in and tell you that sometimes you just don't dream possibilities until you see them. Two years ago at the Atlanta Ds conference, I attended a love stories panal discussion that featured three couples. The first couple both had Ds, had been married for...I think it was 11 years. He was 49 and she was 51 (as I remember). They had dated for 4 years beforing marrying and had gone through pre marital counseling at church. They were awesome and were purchasing their own home. And the amazing thing was this happened after his parents had died and she was raised in an institution until her early 20's! They cared so much for each other and it really showed.

The second couple were engaged to be married in a year. The woman was 31 and had Ds, the man did not, but did have some sort of special need, just not that was visible or audible. They told their story and were so excited to be engaged.

The third couple were 19 and 20 and had been dating since his bar mitvah (isn't that age 13?). They were so cute and told all about their lives and accomplishments. They went to great lengths to explain that they both knew that they needed to become independent and employed and responsible before they could consider getting married.

I thought this was an amazingly positive experience and just what I needed at the time to remind myself that Patrick's future can be what he dreams it to be...and maybe its me that needs to broaden my view of his horizons. I am so grateful to have attended.
 
Name:  patgibson    Email:   
Child:  Croy
Comment:
50    Wednesday, 27 October 2004 - 01:14:14pm
Thanks Judy for responding to Cory wanting to drive
and get married some day. I will take your advice
when he asks these questions.
 
Name:  Betty Lunsford    Email:   
Child:  Christopher Kelly 4yrs
Comment:
49    Wednesday, 27 October 2004 - 01:39:04am
Hello Judy:
I was reading your post and it sounds like your son is very wonderful yound man. My Christopher is my grandson he is my first grandchild. He is a wonderful smart little boy in preschool now. He loves cars,trucks and 4wheelers. And he understands everything his weekeness is his speech but it is getting better....
I was reading one of your post about your son driving your car but not getting drivers lic..I was just wondering if you knew there are some people with DS that does have thier lic..We went to the DS buddy walk in New York last month and in one of the little bags of treats that they give out there was a book (Making Plans) in it, there were stories about dreams of young people with DS... what they wanted out of life some wanted to live on their own and have their own homes and there was one with the name Chris that drove toy cars then go-cart then he took drivers ed. in school and now he has is drivers lic.. So I feel there is hope for my little grandson to have his someday. Because he his simply crazy about big trucks he is just like his Daddy.. who is a machanic...Christopher gets his little tools out and works on his stuff just like Daddy...
Could you tell me how is your sons speech and how old was he when he started talking....Betty Lunsford WV
 
Name:  Judy best    Email:   
Child:  Christopher 24 years old
Comment:
48    Tuesday, 26 October 2004 - 03:55:29am
Hi I am back. I was telling the story about when Christopher was born. Well I will go to when he was 7 years old. I met a wonderful guy who I started dating. He was real great with Christopher. I married him
after dating for 5 years. Christopher thinks the world of him, and he does call him dad. Thanks To my husband, he did help me out quite a bit, he taught Christopher how to ride a bike he taught him not to be afraid of the deep end when swimming. My husband Rick step right in and became Christopher's dad. Rick was there for his first special olympics events. He is there for when ever Christopher need him. Rick bought himself a hat that says Christopher's Dad on it. He wear it all the time because he is proud to be his dad. Christopher grew up being a very happy kid. He does have a very positive outlook on life. No One can tell him that he is ugly. Christopher response to that is of course not. Now that he is 24, I tell him all the time that he is my Muscle and handsome young man. You should see his smile gets bigger, He always giving me big hug and tell me that he love me. He is not only my son but he is my best friend too. He wakes my up on weekend and we go to garage sale all day long. We go to Bingo on Sundays. Sometime we just go into his room and sing with his Kraoke Machine. well I guess that is all for now talk with you all later Judy best
 
Name:  Annie S  
Child:  Sonny 10
Comment:
47    Monday, 25 October 2004 - 05:45:41pm
Hi all Ro Its great to hear from you...
I go into the Dr on the 29th and then I will know for sure what day they will be fixing my heart...I have a PFO its pretty common but what they found is I also have what is called a septum aneryesum (sp) and the whole is quite large and like alot of PFO's the flap opening, open and closes mine stays open all the time.Iam on blood thinners due the fact with this kind of PFO Iam 3 times higher for strokes...But they can now fix it with a catherter through the leg and they put in a small umbrella like plug and the scar tissure grows over it and heals the hole....
Susan Sonny is a pirate this year...Jack Sparo lol he sure loves to dress up What will Emily be this year...
Take care all Annie s
 
Name:  Tammy...  
Child:  Lewis-the-letsleaveit-there...
Comment:
46    Monday, 25 October 2004 - 02:04:03pm
Ro...Ro...Ro...
OH How you HAVE been missed....
As a ""relative newbie""... LOL... (choke ... swallow... it's OK)...
I CLEARLY remember ... 3 years ago when I first discovered Uno-Mas and started posting to this board, YOU were one of the MAIN poster people...(LOL ... makes you sound like "miss July or something...LOL...)
And YOU were the "life" of the party...so to speak...
I have followed through your last few years of study... and a few attempts at "coming back"...
But All I can honestly say...is...
RO I/WE MISS YOU... and your witty and so perfectly (or not) balanced sense of reality!!!
...
Post MORE often!!!
 
Name:  Pat    Email:   
Child:  John-John, 5
Comment:
45    Monday, 25 October 2004 - 11:39:36am
RO...RO..oh how you've been missed. I wondered if you fell off the face of the earth once you became a nurse. I was even asking someone about you the other day. I sure remember praying you'd pass those exams. Do you know the is a college near me in PA that has a 2 year RN program? See you could have moved up here an been done sooner. By the way we DO have grits up here and some of us know how to fix 'em:^) Please don't be a stranger. We miss you when you are:^(
 
Name:  Rowdyro    Email:   
Child:  Several
Comment:
44    Monday, 25 October 2004 - 04:17:16am
HEY YA'LL
Man it has been a longggggggggggg, longggggggggg time:(
So catching up is OUT OF THE QUESTION:( All I can do is go from today and be thankful I am a quick study:)
I am Rhonda, AKA : Rowdyro, Ro for short:) I live with my husband Dannie, Daniel(13 tomorrow), Delano(11),Lara (30 with CP).Teddy(22 with DS), lives with his mom in ALabama.
We live just South of Houston Texas on the Gulf of Mexico. What a place to live:( The skeeters are the size of small aircraft, talk about a flybye WHOOOOOSHHHHHHH. Thankfully this is the only thing we are currently dealing with.
I am currently attending college preparing for my Transition to RN and working a full time schedule to make ends meet:) We be SQUEEKING bye:)
I see some newbies and I see some REALLY OLDIES:)LOL CC the computer guru:) CC you have come along way babe;) I remember the days that the CC stood for Completely confused:)Now you are giving Computer lessons:)Go figure:) I actually talked with Snoozie tonight:) Susan it was great:) It has been way to long and I really think we need to pull the road crew in for a chat:) Man those were the days:)
I seen Robin H down the list but not much of a poster lately:( Robin humble I love and miss ya babe:) Come chat with me PLEASE:) I will be calling ya at the house so be warned:) Good beck? Bad beck? Carolyn? Connie? Marie? Wow to many to try and remember:)LOL

Hope to meet up with all of you and get to know a little bit about you all:)
RO

 
Name:  Jackie    Email:   
Child:  Justin 4 yrs
Comment:
43    Monday, 25 October 2004 - 03:19:20am
WELCOME JODIE!!!!!!!! as for the bulletin board underneath where you type in your screen name and password,check the always stayed logged in box. Hope it works:)
 
Name:  JodieB    Email:   
Child:  Saige 2 yrs
Comment:
42    Monday, 25 October 2004 - 03:09:32am
Is there a trick to logging onto the bulleton board? I registered and then tried to log in but every time I try, it says invalid user name/password. I don't understand? Can anyone help me? Thanks!
 
Name:  steff  
Child:  OLIVIA 6
Comment:
41    Monday, 25 October 2004 - 02:07:22am
Hi!!!! Hi to all who are new here!!!!! I've been out of the loop lately cause school is intense right now.
BUT!!!! ANNIE what heart surgery are you talking about???? Please fill me in .... Awww hun I'm sorry bout whatever you hafta go thru .... Let me know when so I can start praying up a storm for you...K?????
Well gotta go.. I have a BIG test on tuesday..BYE
 
Name:  Pat    Email:   
Child:  John-John, 5
Comment:
40    Sunday, 24 October 2004 - 12:11:34pm
FRAN...Congradulations!!!!!!! I did not find out about John-John until after he was born either. We've had the question asked about future pergnancies, if anyone had another child w/ DS the answer was no except when adopting:) It is riskier if the DS is translocating kind, but it doesn't seem like yours was. Have a great pregnancy & keep us posted. I had 3 in less then 3 yrs. They are really close to each other:^)
 
Name:  Judy Best    Email:   
Child:  Christopher 24 years old
Comment:
39    Saturday, 23 October 2004 - 10:22:35pm
Hi everyone, I sure do like this site. I enjoying hearing about everyone. Annie I am praying and thinking about you and sonny. We finally got Christopher costume ready for Halloween. He goes to a Halloween Dance with ARC. He is going to be a Blue's Brother, he is going to be Jake. He even know how to dance like they do. Last year he won first place at the dance and won $25.00 He was Freddie Kruger from Nightmare on Elm Street. We made up his face real neat. Well I better go for now so until next time Judy best
 
Name:  Nick    Email:   
Child:  Simone
Comment:
38    Saturday, 23 October 2004 - 09:36:53pm
Hi, It has been awhile since I have been on Uno Mas. Since, then my little angel has had tubes put into her ears, and is doing just fine(Thank God that is her only issue). We are putting her into pre-school in Tucson, Arizona. Come to find out the State of Arizona has a program for handicap children. At the age of three these little angels can start pre-school at the elementary school. The program is called "Peak". So, far she does not speak that well, the doctor is assuming that is was because her ears were not draining. The elementary school has provided a speach therapist. I just love Arizona.
W
 
 
Name:  Fran    Email:   
Child:  Juliana, 9 months
Comment:
37    Saturday, 23 October 2004 - 08:08:47pm
Hi everyone, it's been a while. I've been so busy & I'm about to become much busier. I just found out that I am pregnant again!! Quite the shocker! We are thrilled, of course. But also worried in light of Juliana's Down syndrome. Does anyone out there have 2 children with Down syndrome, or know of anyone that does? We are wondering what the odds of having another are. The thought of having an amnio just doesn't agree with me. A while back I had wondered about it & asked Juliana's genetic doctor about that. He said that having a baby with Down syndrome doesnt increase your risk of having another, the risk is based on your age. When I asked my OB/GYN the other day, he said that it doubles your risk. So which is it? I will be seeing a genetic counselor at some point
soon, but wanted to see if anyone here has any info. I'm actually more worried about trisomy 13 or 18, or those horrible things that make Down syndrome seem like nothing.
Lina, congratulations on your pregnancy. Please try not to worry too much. I can tell you that Juliana is the great joy of our lives, and I would not trade her for anything in this world. She is absolutely precious!!! What kind of testing did you have done?
We didn't find out about it until the day after Juliana
was born, so we didn't have time to worry beforehand. We had to jump right in and deal with it. It has totally been worth it. Good luck to you.
 
Name:  Luis Bulit    Email:   
Child:  Francisco (Pancho, 18)
Comment:
36    Thursday, 21 October 2004 - 02:19:42pm
Hy there!!
I am Luis, father of Pancho (18) and president of ASDRA, Asociación Síndrome de Down de la república Argentina, a family centered organization for DS located at Buenos Aires, Argentina (see our website at www.asdra.org.ar
It is my pleasure to announce to you and to all the Down Syndrome community in the USA, that we are organizing the First Iberoamerican Down Syndrome Congress in cooperation with all the argentine associations, the DS Federation of Spain (FEISD) and, for the moment, some local institutions of other countries of Latin-American (such as Chile, Colombia, Ecuador, Brazil and Mexico).
The Congress will be take place at Buenos Aires, Argentina, during May 2007, and we feel that could be interesting to be attended by Spanish spoken residents in USA.
Please fellows, feel free to contact us.
Cordially
Luis
 
Name:  Alice  
Child:  Luke
Comment:
35    Thursday, 21 October 2004 - 02:04:24pm
Lina,
Welcome and congratulations on your pregnancy!
Do you have a boy or a girl and when is his/hers due day?
If you have any questions, please ask, sure we can help you here.
I wish you all the best,
Alice (my son with DS is almost 5 y/old)
 
Name:  Julie    Email:   
Child:  Jordan - 6
Comment:
34    Thursday, 21 October 2004 - 12:53:29pm
I've not been here for a while, but was just updating myself with everyone's progress. Hello to everyone from OZ....
About this thing with our boys growing up and having children of their own.....How many of you have been told that this is most probably an impossibility? I have only ever heard of this happening once, ever!
Most males with DS are born sterile. Please don't let them get their hopes up, as this will lead to more problems later on.............
 
Name:  Susan    Email:   
Child:  Emily, age 13
Comment:
33    Thursday, 21 October 2004 - 12:23:33pm
Annie~ It's so good to hear from you!!! I thought of you the other day as Emily and I were talking about what she wanted to "be" for Halloween because you always do such a great job of making creative costumes for Sonny. What will be be this year?
Please make sure to let us know before you have surgery, and you'll be in our thoughts and prayers!!
Susan
 
Name:  Annie S  
Child:  Sonny 10
Comment:
32    Wednesday, 20 October 2004 - 05:11:14pm
Hi all Its been awhile since I have been on ...I was one of our co chairman for our Buddy walk and it was a great experience..and it was a great success..
Judy Best Thanks so much for sharing your stories of Christopher..I truly enjoyed how you handled everything..
I miss chatting with all...
Sonny is doing great in school finally learning to
read some...seems like we move forward some and back alittle ..
I will be going in to get my heart fixed within the next month will let you all know when..
It was alittle worse than they thought..but the fix
is pretty simple...
well need to get
Take care Annie S
 
Name:  Judy best    Email:   
Child:  Christopher 24 years old
Comment:
31    Tuesday, 19 October 2004 - 03:16:07am
Hi pat, I seen you letter Your son Cory will do fine. I can just let you know how I handled it with my son. Christopher is 24 and I find a real big open space and I do let him drive my car. He is real careful. But as for him getting a driver licence. I as just truthful with him and tell him that chance are that he would probably never get one. I do tell him that maybe someday he will just have to wait and see. He is satified with that answer. He is 24 now and he say that he is going to find a girlfriend and get married and have a son. I tell him that it is possible but that he first has to find someone that he is going to really love. Christopher seen that his stepbrother went into the service, So he wanted to go into the service too. There I told him that he would never be able to go because they would not take him because of his Down Syndrome and he understood that. No one know whats ahead for them, sometime it is best just to take one day at a time with them. Just let him know that maybe someday he can. As they older you will be surprise how much thay can do if given the chance. I hope this helps Judy Best
 
Name:  pat gibson    Email:   
Child:  Cory 14 year boy
Comment:
30    Tuesday, 19 October 2004 - 01:55:21am
Through the fourteen wonderful years I have enjoyed
by son Cory. He is the most loveable child. He has
always been a great challenge for me and everyday is
full of a new surprize.
He is now in a MH program at our local high school in
the eighth grade is doing very well. His older brother is sixteen and of course the normal teenager.
Cory tries to follow everything his brother does.
He questions when he will be able to drive a car, go
on a date, etc. He wants to get married and have
children someday too. How do I explain to him that
things like this might never happen for him. As he
gets older I find myself crying for the life he has
ahead of him. Can anyone help me?
Pat
 
Name:  Cathy    Email:   
Child:  Katie, 3
Comment:
29    Monday, 18 October 2004 - 06:57:50pm
Hi Unoland,
~
Susan said that I have not posted enough lately so here I am with a little update. My princess will be 4 next month and what great strides she is making.
~
She still does a lot of babbling, but she also is starting to put together 3-5 word sentences. She asks questions, How ya doing? What's happening? Where ya been? Whatcha doing? and she can answer most questions too.
~
Her school is going very well this year, she is pretty bossy and tries to help all the other kids with their sign language. She gets PT, OT and ST and the teachers have to report to me weekly. I love it! I am so proud of her, and at the same time very sad, my little baby is growing up too fast!
~
She started dance lessons and is actually starting to "get it" she follows the other kids and does just great as long as the music is playing... but once it stops, she loses her focus and begins exploring. She also takes swimming lessons and shows absolutely no fear! Jumps off the side of the pool and giggles.
~
We have an appointment at the ENT next month and also an appointment at the Multi-Disciplinary Clinic for her 6 month check-up. Can't wait to hear what they have to say!
~
Emily is growing up to fast too. She lost her first tooth this weekend and thought it was the greatest thing to get money from the Tooth Fairy. She is still bored in Kindergarten, but we are keeping her busy with other things. Dance, 4-H, Sunday School and she will be entering into a mentoring program. Hopefully this will help her. I hate to think that I have to harbor a kindergarten drop-out.
~
I am very busy these days keeping up with these monsters, but I am always lurking. Hugs to you all! Have a great day.
~
Cathy
 
Name:  Judy Best    Email:   
Child:  Christopher 24 years old
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28    Monday, 18 October 2004 - 02:05:58am
Hi I am back, I put a picture in the october of my son Christopher. He worked at Safeway grocery Story as a courtsey clerk for 3 months. He is with his cousin Donte.
Like I said before he is 24 years now and choose to live at home. I am glad he made that choice. He helps alot around the house. He know how to do laundry, cook simple things like sloppy joes. Know how to clean house real good. He like special olympics alot, He does softball, swimming, basketball, He is getting ready to start working on his crosscountry skiing again. He is alway smiling and giving me kisses on my cheek and tells me that he love me. If I am feeling down he will come into the room and put some music on and get me to dance and sing with him. He alway seem to make me feel better. He has all kinds of friends around the neighborhood. All the kids are real nice with him. He is very friendly and outgoing. Some of the kids will even sit down with me and ask question about him. On his 24th birthday his cousins took him out to the bar to have a beer and asked some girls to take a picture with him. The girls tooks a picture with him and as they took the picture the two girls gave him a kiss on the cheek(so he had a girl on each side giving him a kiss on the cheek). Christopher has that picture up and shows it to everyone. I thought that was nice of the girls. All the girls were dancing with him. Well I guess this is all for now.
 
Name:  Cheyanne    Email:   
Child:  Noah, 9 months
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27    Sunday, 17 October 2004 - 03:42:24am
Hello everyone! I've been away for awhile and we were looking to move to NC, but when I arrived and went to check out the schools I was just disappointed in the area we were looking at since they sent the down syndrome children to a special school. I sit back now and wonder where the best places to live are. I'm not too happy with the area we live in since it's so rural and I just want a better medical facility for my son, and the chance of a great education too. I'm wondering what states have the best programs for our kids.
Boy, Noah is sure getting big now. He is only 9 months old but he's beginning to try to do patty cake, although tonight he went from patty cake with his hands to hitting his head and then he was trying to hit his hand over his mouth like you do to make the indian sounds. He sits for small periods of time now but still will fall over. I was so happy to hear him say da da da and ba ba ba, but he doesn't really talk a lot. I've been trying to teach him a little sign language. We found out he does have a hole in his heart (ASD), but its small and so we wait a year to find out what happens next. They also mentioned mitral valve leakage but again it's very small. I think this is what has made us want to move... to get closer to a children's hospital. I have a feeling there are a few of you who have perhaps felt the same way at one time or another?
Have a great night...
Cheyanne
 
Name:  Susan  
Child:  Emily, age 13
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26    Saturday, 16 October 2004 - 09:31:52pm
Thanks Judy!! We'd love to see a picture of Christopher! Check out the photo album, and the instructions on how to use it. Looking forward to hearing more. What's Christopher up to now?
Susan
 
Name:  Judy Best    Email:   
Child:  Christopher 24 years old
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25    Saturday, 16 October 2004 - 05:20:04pm
Hi, I am back. Well I guess I can tell my story alittle bit at a time. I was 24 years old and single. I was not due until May 15, 1980. But on April 29, 1980 my son was born. I was in labor for only 2 1/2 hours and the delivery was real quick. right after he was born they laid him on my stomach. then they took him away. The first day they would not bring him to me. I kept asking for him but I would not get any answers. The doctor finally came in the evening and said she had to talk to me. So she took me to a private room and told me that when my son was born he had the features of a DS and that they had to take a test to confirm it. The test came back positive. At the time she was telling me I got to hold my baby. When she told me he was DS I just hug him and pulled him closer to me and started crying. I ask her to call my mom. My Mom got to the hospital in no time. That is when the doctor said since I was single that I should put him in an institution. There was no way I was going to put my son into an insitution. Sure I cry and asked why me. But there was no question in my mind I loved him and would take him home. When I got out of the hospital I did call the father to let him know that Christopher was born I also told him that he was DS. Till this day the father wants nothing to do with him. My Mom quit her job so she could babysit for me. So that I could go back to work. I got Christopher into an infant stimulation progam right away. My boss was very understanding and he let me take off whenever I need to take Christopher to this progam. I also got him into swimming at five week old. He was a very beautiful baby. I had a hard time going back to work. But I come from a big family. All my family was very supportive and help me out. Christopher was a very happy baby he seem to always have a smile. I would say he is smiling because he is seeing angles looking after him. I do feel blessed and glad that god has chosen me to have this special child. Christopher is my life. Christopher is a very healthy young man now. Well I guess that is all for now. I will come back and tell more about my story of how he grew up.
 
Name:  Susan    Email:   
Child:  Emily, age 13
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24    Saturday, 16 October 2004 - 12:53:33pm
Judy~
WELCOME to Uno Mas!!! We'd love to hear your story!! There is a section here called "your story" but I really don't think that area is read as often as this message board or the Bulletin Board. I would suggest that you post your story either here, or join the Bulletin board and post your story as a new thread in the general section of the Bulletin board. There is a section for "who's who", but after you post your story there, no one is able to post a reply to you. So, probably the place where it will be read by the most people is the general section of the Bulletin board. We'd love to get to know you and hear about your son!!!
Susan
 
Name:  Judy Best    Email:   
Child:  Christopher 24 years old
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23    Friday, 15 October 2004 - 06:09:28pm
My name is Judy. My son is Christopher he is Down Syndrome, he is 24 years old. He is an only child. He is the light of my life. I wanted to tell my story but could not find where to go to sign up.
 
Name:  donnita    Email:   
Child:  Cassandra 3
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22    Thursday, 14 October 2004 - 08:29:40pm
Hello Lina and welcome to Uno Mas!
 
Name:  Susan  
Child:  Emily, age 13
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21    Wednesday, 13 October 2004 - 05:26:02pm
Lina~ WELCOME to Uno Mas!!! It's great to have you here! Please tell us more....which test was positive for Down syndrome? When will your baby be born? We're here for you! Please feel free to ask questions, chat with us, or just read. My best advice is to take one day at a time. For me, the fear of the unknown was so much worse than anything we've experienced since my daughter was born......13 years ago.
Susan
 
Name:  lina flores    Email:   
Child:  unborn
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20    Wednesday, 13 October 2004 - 04:56:57pm
i came across this web page aftrer doing a search about down syndrome. yesterday my Dr told me that my test results came back positive for down syndrome. i have not been able to sleep all night.
my child isn't even born yet, and i am so afraid. i do not know why, i guess the unknown.
after reading so many nice things about people with down syndrome i feel better.
this baby may change all our lives in a positive direction
 
Name:  Robin    Email:   
Child:  Chase/12
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19    Monday, 11 October 2004 - 02:31:30pm
Dearest Tricia,
I have been gone for a while so did not see your post on your sweet baby Chase until now. You and I have a couple things in common. My son who is twelve and has DS is Chase Alexander. He was also born in July. He is the light of our lives as I know your baby Chase would have been. Words cannot say how so very sorry I am for your loss. My heart breaks for you as I too lost a son and know the undescribable agony you and your husband are dealing with. I will keep you in my prayers.
Robin
 
Name:  Betty Lunsford    Email:   
Child:  Christopher Kelly
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18    Monday, 11 October 2004 - 01:39:38pm
Hello Mia..
My grandson just turned 4 aug 26..and he is really doing good on the potty ..still does have some acc. with the number 2 here at my house ..because I don't have a potty like he does at home..But at home he goes to his potty to pee and poop by his self..
He will pee his pants if he get scared his little cousin hit him the other day and he started to cry and said ball ball thats me; he said pee pee ball ball...But he does really well with the potty...He always wears big boy undies now.. unless we are going somewhere we know there is no bathrooms . A few weeks ago he started peeing his pants at school we don't know why..But I pick him up because his mommy works and we always stop at micky dees to get him a fun meal after school so I told him the next morning that if he wets his pants or poops in them we won't stop at micky dees and he was dry and the teach said that he even pooped on the potty that day...
I am so proud of him ...But I guess that just being a grandma...his is my first grandchild...I do have one other grandson five and half months younger and they a something else when the are together..they are into everything; mean little boys...but loveable little boys I guess they are just all boy... Betty
 
Name:  steff    Email:   
Child:  OLIVIA 6
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17    Monday, 11 October 2004 - 04:31:11am
Hi Mia!!!!!

Your daughter sounds like she is doing amazing with her potty training. My girl Olivia was not even potty trained fully till she started kinder at almost 6 so WTG....

I would like to add to you one tip... My girl drinks a nectar juice generally pear and apricot. They are called Kerns nectars but any nectar will do. I let her drink 1/2 of the 12 oz can a day. It works wonderful for the #2. Mineral oil made my girl really sick as a baby cause she aspirated it into her lungs. As long as your child doesn't have lung problems and as long as you DON'T give it to her when she has a cough or sick then you shouldn't have any problems. The nectars seemed to make it MUCH less painful to go #2. Gross I know but true. Once she had the nectars in her for a week or 2 she was as regular as could be. Just wanted to warn you of the oil cause it caused us MUCH diress and about 3 weeks in the hospital. Steff
 
Name:  Mia Bachman    Email:   
Child:  ava 3 1/2
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16    Sunday, 10 October 2004 - 08:39:07pm
I am searching for advice regarding potty training. Ava is schedule trained for tinkle, and still going in her panties for poop. she will express the need for #2, but will retain it once we get to potty seat or toilet. she says its too hard (to work at). then we go through this dance again the next day. ava receives mineral oil, so she is not constipated and eats a very healthy diet. any thoughts or suggsetions? As far as tinkle, i just made a picture board of me playing, acting like a need to go to the bathroom, sitting on toilet, washing hands, then returning to play. hopefully, this will send the message home that she can stop playing and return after she uses the potty. thanks for any and all sugesstions!